If you’ve been reading this blog from the beginning you would know that I’m very adamant about remaining abstinent until I get married again. I made the commitment in December 2015 after I separated from my husband, but it was a real struggle for me! He was still my husband so technically I wasn’t doing … More Abstinence Ain’t Easy!
I was going through my poetry notebook and found one of my favorite poems that I wrote when I was younger. Imagine me writing a poem about what women want when I wasn’t even quite a woman myself (I was 19 at the time) but I still think there are some truths to what I … More What Women Want
Is there some sort of manual on how to be during and after a divorce? Are there rules and regulations for when you should start dating or even when you can start being interested in other people? How do you even date after a divorce? How do you date period? Before I got married I … More Dating? What’s That?
Dear Furture Husband here’s what I need you to know This is not my first time doing this marriage thing but please don’t hold it against me. The first time around, I became a ‘wife’ before I was a bride…of Christ, that is Which left lots of room for the enemy to come in and … More Dear Future Husband
Hey guys! I’ve written a little poem that I wanted to share with you all, called Dear Future Husband. I was inspired to write it because I’ve joined the Pray for Your Future Spouse 5 Day Challenge that was created by Jamal and Natasha Miller who are the founders of The One University which I’m … More Dear Future Husband Introduction
Today is officially one week from my birthday so I’ve decided to do a 7 Day fast to prepare myself as I walk into my 34th year of life. This past year was my “Christ Year” and it was an amazing year. It did not end how I was expecting it to or how I … More Forgiveness to Freedom
In my last post I mentioned briefly that I struggle with what I call my secret sins (jealousy, pride and being judgmental) so today I really want to be transparent about them. I want to expose myself so that I can continue on my path to growth and true freedom in Christ! I want to … More Side-chick Wife
I’ve finally caught up on all the episodes of season 14 of Grey’s Anatomy and I am happy to say that I will be watching season 15 because April Kepner has gotten her redemption and she got it real good! If you don’t know what I’m talking about please refer to my previous post My … More Mustard Seed
I have not written or posted anything for more than a month now and I must admit that it’s very upsetting. It’s not that I haven’t had any ideas or wanted to write, it’s just that I’ve been struggling! I’ve been struggling with impatience because even though my husband and I have come a long … More I’m Struggling Y’all!
“God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good!” A few weeks ago, I had a very long conversation with my husband where he uttered the above statement several times and it made my heart smile. Why is this such a big deal you ask? Well, because when I first met my … More 2018…a year of New Beginnings and Necessary Endings! #Godisgood